Are you worried that your teen son or daughter will turn to drugs no matter how they've been raised? Sometimes, children see things in a different light than you do. Dads are often labeled as someone who wasn't there when it mattered most. Teens try to point fingers at their fathers when it comes to why they're using drugs or alcohol.
If you're worried that you aren't being the best dad you can be, consider the following tips. They'll help you be a better dad, even when you think you're doing all you can already. For dependable drug and alcohol rehab in Asheville NC give us call at Legacy Freedom. We can help you with your drinking problem.
Being A Better Dad Keeps Kids Sober
Emotionally Available - While physical interaction is key, so are emotional connections. John Gottman, author of "The Heart of Parenting" said in his book, "Men must allow themselves to be aware of their feelings so they can empathize with their children. Then they must take whatever steps necessary to make themselves available to their kids."
Be Available - If you work a job with long hours, you might not have time to drop everything and run to your child when they need you. This can affect your kids, even if you can’t help it. Try being available more often if possible. You show them you care, that you’ll be there no matter what and it might help them feel more meaningful.
Communication - Sometimes, it’s difficult to connect and communicate with our children. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t continue to try. If they prefer to text, forgo normal phone calls and opt for text. You might be conforming to new ways and losing the art of a good old fashioned phone call, but desperate times calls for desperate measures. Would you rather have a conversation via text with your teen or not have one at all?
Be Involved - Believe it or not, less than 15 percent of fathers receive shared or joint custody when a divorce and child custody battle occurs. This might lead a teen to drug or alcohol use at some point in their adolescent lives. Don’t lose touch with them even if you only get to see them on weekends and holidays. Call them every other day and make it a point to stay active in their lives. If they play sports, volunteer to be a coach or at least come watch games and practices. Stay involved and it will make a difference.
Even when your child turns to drugs or alcohol at a young age, there are still ways you can play an active role in their lives. Use these tips, stay in touch via phone, email or regular mail if it comes to that. Don’t break communication, even if they won’t talk to you at the time. Keep trying to reach out and be there for them. Eventually, they’ll need you and your help.
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If you, your son or daughter, or other loved one is suffering from an alcohol or substance abuse problem and need help, consider drug and alcohol rehab in Asheville NC. Addiction isn’t something that can be beaten easily. Often it requires extensive rehab and support. We're here to offer both to you, when you’re ready. Addiction can leave you feeling sad, lonely, and angry. You are not alone. Legacy Freedom of Asheville is here to help you get back on track to a happier, healthy, drug free life.