Teenage years can be hard on both parents and kids. It’s the time in life when children become more adult-like. They have more responsibility, they learn to drive, and eventually move out and go on to college. However, it’s more challenging on the young adult than it is on the parent at this point. In those years beyond high school, young adult children begin living on their own. They care for themselves and are responsible for their own living expenses. Do you have questions about drug rehabilitation in Asheville NC? Legacy has the answers! Call now!
In our past two blog posts, we talked about how to ensure your kids are drug-free throughout life. This is a continual process that takes years of constant communication. Beginning at a very young age children can understand that drugs are bad. Once you start associating drugs with substances that are unhealthy and bad, kids will pick up on and understand the overall concept of saying no to drugs. However, you have to keep talking about it as they go into elementary school, middle school, high school, and college.
Without learning about the negative effects of drugs and substance abuse from their parents, kids will not understand that using drugs is wrong. Parents lead by example, teach kids about right and wrong and offer support, understanding, and information about the negative effects of drug use. Don't let addiction ruin your family. Call Legacy today and ask about our drug rehabilitation in Asheville NC.
High schoolers and college students will insist that they don’t need your help in making good decisions. They assume that their friends, social behaviors, and choices will be just fine without you. However, there are ways to guide your kids, no matter what age they are. This starts with making rules for your household and sticking with them. We know that the transition from middle school to high school can be difficult. In addition, the transition from high school to college can also be challenging. That doesn’t mean they don’t need rules. No matter what age your kids are, there are rules to make that grow with them. In addition, it’s important to enforce them at all times. Don't make rules and then break them when you see your kids feeling down and out. Just remind them of the things they should be doing and how they'll be rewarded for sticking to the rules.
Below, you'll find the following helpful tips when talking with your teenagers and young adults about saying no to drugs.
- Talk in detail with them about addiction, what it means and how often it can occur. Let them know that addiction can be an issue before they even realize it. Some drugs are more dangerous than others. However, that doesn’t mean that they should use any drug. All drugs are dangerous.
- Discuss gateway drugs and how they can affect substance abuse in the long run. Teens and young adults seem to think that alcohol and marijuana can be a fun, recreational way to let loose. They need to realize this can be a gateway to a more serious dependency for both. They can even cause a need for stronger drugs and lead to an even more difficult addiction.
- Remind them that addiction can cause problems in life, at school, and at work. Whether they're a teenager in high school or young adult in college, the issues are the same. They can lose their jobs, scholarships, and begin making terrible grades. Graduation can be jeopardized. Problems can follow them into adulthood.
- Talk with your teens and young adults about how drugs impact our society. Especially in today’s time, with the opioid addiction, dependency on drugs is becoming more and more popular and more detrimental. It’s difficult to maintain a healthy, productive lifestyle while abusing drugs.
- Talk with them about better ways to relieve stress and let loose when the pressures of doing well in school and performing in sports become too much. A day at the mall, lunch with friends, a weekend getaway to a mountain cabin, or other options are available. Drugs are not the answer to stress. Remind them of this frequently.
- As teens and young adults, it’s possible your kids will come in contact with reality and the idea of drug use will become something that affects them directly or indirectly. They may have a friend who tries drugs for the first time when they’re around. They might be asked to use drugs at a football game or when hanging out at a friend's house. This is the time when everything you have taught them will be put to use. Then, if they talk to you about their experiences, you can reinforce your knowledge as well as their knowledge about substance abuse, how to cope with peer pressure, and why drugs are bad.
- We don’t want our children to have to be involved with drug use of any kind, whether it’s directly or indirectly. However, at some point, it’s possible they will be faced with the decision of whether not to use drugs. They're becoming their own person and as long as you’ve done everything you can to make sure they understand that drugs are unhealthy and can damage their lifestyle, cause addiction and more, they should be able to make an informed decision on not to use drugs.
- It's also important to talk about specific drugs and how they're used. Bringing awareness to certain popular drugs and how they can negatively affect them is a great way to arm your kids with the knowledge they need to say no. Below, you'll find the most commonly used drugs for high school kids and beyond.
- Herbal ecstasy
Making sure your kids know that addiction can happen to them is key. They might never think about the consequences otherwise. It's up to you to make sure they understand the dangers of using drugs, even if they only try it once. Don't rely on classes in school, either. They might learn much of what they need to, but the information coming from a parent as opposed to a teacher might make all the difference. Legacy offers age appropriate drug rehabilitation in Asheville NC. Call now to learn more.
Just as you influenced your children when they were preteens to be their own person, also continue that into their teenage years. You might find that they'll become a leader in their circle of friends, rather than someone who is easily peer pressured. All it takes is one kid to stand up to friends and it's likely more will follow. It's imperative that your teens and young adults refrain from using drugs, even just once. Help them see that they can be a leader, not a follower.
Drug Rehabilitation in Asheville NC for Teens and Young Adults
If your teen son or daughter is suffering from a substance abuse problem, it's time to get them help with quality drug rehabilitation in Asheville NC. While it’s easy for them to believe they are alone in this struggle that is the farthest thing from the truth. There are numerous teens and young adults dealing with addiction, all over the world. Regardless of how bad drug or alcohol use has become, help is always available. Contact Legacy Freedom of Asheville if your teen needs drug treatment. We are here to help them get back on track to a healthier, happier life.