Did you know that cheating on your partner could cause them to develop post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)? When you cheat on your partner, they experience levels of trauma to their emotional well-being and security that leave them feeling confused and disoriented by what has taken place. When the news of the infidelity emerges, the party who was unaware that they had been cheated on is left feeling betrayed, humiliated, and emotionally tortured. Don't let PTSD ruin your life. Call Legacy. We offer Raleigh, NC PTSD therapy you can depend on.
Discovering the infidelity and experiencing the trauma of the betrayal by their partner or spouse can be a triggering event for many people. When prior traumatic situations and experiences emerge, they can significantly slow or complicate the healing process for the person. Memories of unresolved or buried spiritual, emotional, or physical damage from the past may trigger flashbacks, nightmares, and other symptoms of PTSD.
Classic symptoms of PTSD which may be experienced include:
- Needing to assign blame to regain self-worth
- Feelings of disorientation or confusion
- Inability to stop looking for more evidence of the adultery
- Out of body experiences
- Intrusive thoughts
- Failure to regulate emotions
- Experiencing a sense of being broken or powerless
- Alternating desires to retaliate and feelings of numbness
In order to overcome the infidelity and work through the PTSD and remaining issues that have re-emerged as a result of the cheating, couples need to be aware of and focus on these common issues.
The Strength of Their Relationship
Partners who have a strong bond and who are able to communicate openly about their disappointments and needs in the relationship may be able to work through an instance of infidelity. However, if the commitment to the relationship is wavering by one or both parties, then the emergence of the affair is more significant, and the likelihood that the relationship will be able to be repaired is slim.
Known Party Betrayal
When two trusted people have gone behind the back of the third person and engaged in an affair, the betrayal is almost unfathomable. The feelings of anguish, humiliation, and destruction of the relationships with both parties is almost irreparable. In instances where other people outside the triangle knew that the affair was occurring friendships and other relationships may also be damaged beyond repair.
The Length of the Affair
If the affair is ongoing or has been going on for an extended period of time the person outside the primary relationship may not be willing to be dismissed and can cause further trauma to the person who was unaware of the affair. However, if the infidelity occurred once and was quickly confessed, the betrayed partner may have the ability to work through the shock and anguish and heal.
Best Raleigh, NC PTSD Therapy
If you have found yourself the victim of adultery and are having trouble coming to terms with the loss of your partner or are experiencing PTSD symptoms Legacy Freedom can help. Our experienced team knows that working through the loss of a relationship and healing old wounds can be difficult. You don't have to try to heal on your own. Call or click today to connect with one of our care team members and begin your healing journey with Legacy Freedom of Raleigh today to learn more about our Raleigh, NC PTSD therapy.